<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[MYMM Newsletter: Mind Your P's and Q's]]></title><description><![CDATA[Join me, attorney Abbie Godles, for my podcast, where I share helpful information and practical tips on navigating Arizona divorce and custody, offering insight on out-of-court solutions and litigation.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/s/podcast</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png</url><title>MYMM Newsletter: Mind Your P&apos;s and Q&apos;s</title><link>https://mymm.substack.com/s/podcast</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2026 01:27:50 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://mymm.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[mymm@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[mymm@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[mymm@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[mymm@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 83 - Why “Fair” Beats “Victory” Every Time]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | When your marriage is ending, your gut says &#8220;I want to win.&#8221; But here&#8217;s the truth: chasing victory in family court will cost you tens of thousands of dollars, years of your life, and your kids&#8217; peace of mind&#8212;all to get roughly the same outcome you could&#8217;ve reached in mediation.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-83-why-fair-beats-victory-every</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-83-why-fair-beats-victory-every</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2025 17:01:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/178718203/455ed0789a615fbc73c44730782c67c7.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When your marriage is ending, your gut says &#8220;I want to win.&#8221; But here&#8217;s the truth: chasing victory in family court will cost you tens of thousands of dollars, years of your life, and your kids&#8217; peace of mind&#8212;all to get roughly the same outcome you could&#8217;ve reached in mediation. In this episode, I&#8217;m breaking down why &#8220;fair&#8221; isn&#8217;t about being nice to your ex&#8212;it&#8217;s about saving your money, your sanity, and your future. Fair doesn&#8217;t feel as good as winning, but it&#8217;s the only thing that actually works.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 82 - The Cost of Being Right]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | When you&#8217;ve been wronged, you want vindication&#8212;you want someone to declare you were right and they were wrong.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-82-the-cost-of-being-right</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-82-the-cost-of-being-right</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2025 17:00:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/178710949/6b3e2ab6bbad5a9e7ade8aded43274f4.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you&#8217;ve been wronged, you want vindication&#8212;you want someone to declare you were right and they were wrong. But being right in family law is expensive as hell: it costs you tens of thousands of dollars, years of your life, damage to your kids and your co-parenting relationship, and your ability to move forward. In this episode, I&#8217;m breaking down what &#8220;being right&#8221; behavior actually looks like (relitigating the past, fighting on principle, proving who&#8217;s the better parent), what it really costs in money and sanity, and when standing your ground actually matters versus when you&#8217;re just setting money on fire to feed your ego.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 81 - Mediation Requires Equal Participation]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | In the last episode, we talked about why you&#8217;re not a &#8220;we&#8221; anymore&#8212;today, we&#8217;re building on that with a hard truth: mediation requires equal participation from both people, and if one person won&#8217;t engage, mediation fails.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-81-mediation-requires-equal-participation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-81-mediation-requires-equal-participation</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2025 17:02:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/178024291/de956a5a4607b5b33c0d86cd37e5e63a.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the last episode, we talked about why you&#8217;re not a &#8220;we&#8221; anymore&#8212;today, we&#8217;re building on that with a hard truth: mediation requires equal participation from both people, and if one person won&#8217;t engage, mediation fails. I&#8217;m breaking down what equal participation actually means, the red flags that tell me someone&#8217;s not really committed, and why I won&#8217;t chase you or let one person carry the entire process. This isn&#8217;t me being harsh&#8212;this is just how mediation works, and I&#8217;d rather be honest upfront than take your money knowing it won&#8217;t succeed.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 80 - You're Not a “We” Anymore]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | When couples come to me for mediation, I hear a lot of &#8220;we&#8221; language: &#8220;We want to do this amicably,&#8221; &#8220;We&#8217;ve already decided,&#8221; &#8220;We&#8217;re on the same page.&#8221; But here&#8217;s the hard truth&#8212;if you&#8217;re getting divorced, you&#8217;re not a &#8220;we&#8221; anymore.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-80-youre-not-a-we-anymore</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-80-youre-not-a-we-anymore</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2025 17:02:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/178018457/a394f547207c6b02524a6fbe506b75de.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When couples come to me for mediation, I hear a lot of &#8220;we&#8221; language: &#8220;We want to do this amicably,&#8221; &#8220;We&#8217;ve already decided,&#8221; &#8220;We&#8217;re on the same page.&#8221; But here&#8217;s the hard truth&#8212;if you&#8217;re getting divorced, you&#8217;re not a &#8220;we&#8221; anymore. You&#8217;re two separate people with separate interests, and pretending otherwise doesn&#8217;t make mediation easier, it makes it impossible. In this episode, I&#8217;m breaking down why letting go of &#8220;we&#8221; is one of the hardest but most essential shifts you need to make, what &#8220;we&#8221; behavior actually looks like (and why it&#8217;s a red flag), and why mediation can only work when both people can advocate for themselves as individuals.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 79 - Co-Parenting After DV]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Co-parenting with someone who was abusive to you requires different strategies than typical co-parenting.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-79-co-parenting-after-dv</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-79-co-parenting-after-dv</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 17:00:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/175554169/74f9ddff0e6993b2650c3c4e6a500217.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Co-parenting with someone who was abusive to you requires different strategies than typical co-parenting. In this episode, I break down practical communication strategies, how to choose the right communication medium, what messages to respond to versus ignore, and how to set and enforce boundaries around timing and access. I also cover red flags that co-parenting may not be safe and what alternative options you have. You&#8217;ll leave with concrete tools to communicate only what&#8217;s necessary while protecting your mental health and safety.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Previous Episodes Mentioned</strong></p><p>Ep. 21 - Parenting Plans in Cases Involving Domestic Violence - <a href="https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-21-parenting-plans-in-cases-involving-e1a">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-21-parenting-plans-in-cases-involving-e1a</a></p><p>Ep. 42 - Parallel Parenting - <a href="https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-42-parallel-parenting">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-42-parallel-parenting</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 78 - Tech-Facilitated Abuse]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Technology-facilitated domestic violence is when abusers use technology to harass, stalk, monitor, intimidate, or control current or former intimate partners.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-78-tech-facilitated-abuse</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-78-tech-facilitated-abuse</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 17:01:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/175550976/5642fff371a4b6f9acf030e2a442aab6.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Technology-facilitated domestic violence is when abusers use technology to harass, stalk, monitor, intimidate, or control current or former intimate partners. In this episode, I break down what tech abuse actually looks like and walk you through practical safety steps you can take right now. I also explain your legal options here in Arizona. You&#8217;ll leave with clarity on how to recognize tech abuse, protect yourself, and understand the legal remedies available to you.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Previous Episodes Mentioned</strong></p><p>Ep. 7 - Legal Fundamental - Orders of Protection - <a href="https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-7-legal-fundamental-orders-of-c62">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-7-legal-fundamental-orders-of-c62</a></p><p>Ep. 77 - Navigating DV and AI - <a href="https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-77-navigating-dv-and-ai">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-77-navigating-dv-and-ai</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Statutes Mentioned</strong></p><p>A.R.S. &#167; 13-2915 Preventing use of telephone in emergency; false representation of emergency; classification; definitions - <a href="https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02915.htm">https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02915.htm</a></p><p>A.R.S. &#167; 13-2916 Use of an electronic communication to terrify, intimidate, threaten or harass; unlawful use of electronic communication device; applicability; classification; definitions - <a href="https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02916.htm">https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02916.htm</a></p><p>A.R.S. &#167; 13-2923 Stalking; classification; exceptions; definitions - <a href="https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02923.htm">https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02923.htm</a></p><p>A.R.S. &#167; 13-3019 Surreptitious photographing, videotaping, filming or digitally recording or viewing; exemptions; classification; definitions - <a href="https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/03019.htm">https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/03019.htm</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Resources (non-exhaustive list)</strong></p><p>National DV Hotline - 1&#8209;800&#8209;799&#8209;SAFE, text &#8220;START&#8221; to 88788, or <a href="http://thehotline.org/">thehotline.org</a></p><p>Safety Net - <a href="http://www.techsafety.org/">www.techsafety.org</a></p><p>Refuge Tech Safety - <a href="http://refugetechsafety.org/">refugetechsafety.org</a></p><p>Arizona Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence - <a href="http://acesdv.org">acesdv.org</a>, 602-279-2980 or 800-782-6400, Arizona Relay Service 7-1-1, <a href="mailto:info@acesdv.org">info@acesdv.org</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 77 - Navigating DV and AI]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | AI can help name abuse patterns, but it can also create digital risks.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-77-navigating-dv-and-ai</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-77-navigating-dv-and-ai</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 17:00:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/173201253/5ed43dc6f419ec90e776be6b349f78b6.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AI can help name abuse patterns, but it can also create digital risks. In this episode, I explain what&#8217;s safe to ask a chatbot, what to never upload, and how to use survivor&#8209;focused tools like Aimee Says thoughtfully. I discuss how these tools can support reflection without replacing confidential help and leave you with clear, practical steps you can use today.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><p>Aimee Says - <a href="https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home">https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Resources (non-exhaustive list)</strong></p><p>National DV Hotline - 1&#8209;800&#8209;799&#8209;SAFE, text "START" to 88788, or <a href="http://thehotline.org/">thehotline.org</a></p><p>Safety Net - www.techsafety.org</p><p>Refuge Tech Safety - refugetechsafety.org</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 76 - Legal Fundamental - 2025 Spousal Maintenance Updates]]></title><description><![CDATA[Arizona&#8217;s 2025 Spousal Maintenance updates are here.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-76-legal-fundamental-2025-spousal</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-76-legal-fundamental-2025-spousal</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2025 17:03:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/173225556/7571dde001155e132b886bfeea69c5d3.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Arizona&#8217;s 2025 Spousal Maintenance updates are here. In this episode, I break down the effective date, what changed to the guidelines, and the associated changes to the calculator. I also touch on what these shifts mean for planning under the revised framework.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><p>Spousal Maintenance Guidelines - <a href="https://www.azcourts.gov/familylaw/Child-Support-Family-Law-Information/Spousal-Maintenance-Guidelines">https://www.azcourts.gov/familylaw/Child-Support-Family-Law-Information/Spousal-Maintenance-Guidelines</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Previous Episodes Mentioned</strong></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mymm/p/ep-29-legal-fundamental-new-spousal-e05?r=3qhi9g&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false">Ep. 29 - Legal Fundamental - NEW Spousal Maintenance Calculator</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2581518,&quot;embedding_publication_id&quot;:null,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;MYMM Newsletter&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;&quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Abbie Godles&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fff7f9&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mymm.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VJWv!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa11b16c7-a6c3-4299-a7fa-9a0a7024c21b_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(255, 247, 249);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">MYMM Newsletter</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">It's me, Attorney Abbie, with my AZ family mediation firm's newsletter to keep you in the know on all the most important things. Take pity on a millennial who's bad at the internet and please consider subscribing... I can use all the support I can get! &#128131;</div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Abbie Godles</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 75 - AFCC Model Standards for Mediation]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) has released a major update to its Model Standards for Family and Divorce Mediation.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-75-afcc-model-standards-for-mediation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-75-afcc-model-standards-for-mediation</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2025 17:01:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/171925742/78d67535ff6906e36893fd92a8c6a0e8.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) has released a major update to its Model Standards for Family and Divorce Mediation. In this episode, I break down what stayed the same&#8212;like self&#8209;determination, impartiality, confidentiality, and competence&#8212;and what&#8217;s new, including stronger screening, clearer guidance on domestic abuse and child maltreatment, technology and online mediation, and a more robust child&#8209;centered approach. You&#8217;ll hear how the reorganization and clarified definitions translate into what families, attorneys, and self&#8209;represented parties can expect in mediation today.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><p>2025 AFCC Model Standards for Family and Divorce Mediation - <a href="https://www.afccnet.org/Portals/0/PDF/Model-Standards-for-Family-and-Divorce-Mediation-Updated">https://www.afccnet.org/Portals/0/PDF/Model-Standards-for-Family-and-Divorce-Mediation-Updated</a> 2025-7-22.pdf?ver=5LBqekcLCogrlS03SVYwqA%3D%3D</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 74 - Navigating High-Conflict Cases]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | This episode tackles day-to-day high-conflict patterns in divorce and custody and offers practical steps to reduce flare-ups and increase predictability for kids.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-74-navigating-high-conflict-cases</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-74-navigating-high-conflict-cases</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2025 17:00:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/171849711/508f3021cc9033aa6241fd2022587276.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This episode tackles day-to-day high-conflict patterns in divorce and custody and offers practical steps to reduce flare-ups and increase predictability for kids. It walks through Bill Eddy&#8217;s BIFF and EAR methods and clean &#8220;I&#8221; statements, with process-agnostic tips that work in both mediation and litigation. You&#8217;ll hear clear decision-making models including parallel parenting, plus calmer exchange structures and plug-and-play scripts to keep messages short and effective.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Previous Episodes Mentioned</strong></p><p>Ep. 38 - Co-Parenting Apps - <a href="https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-38-co-parenting-apps-1fe">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-38-co-parenting-apps-1fe</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 73 - Special Needs Considerations]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Navigating family law is challenging&#8212;especially when a child or parent has special needs.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-73-special-needs-considerations</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-73-special-needs-considerations</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2025 17:03:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/170637884/5bff81f2ee59c13dba5a46e243f4299e.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Navigating family law is challenging&#8212;especially when a child or parent has special needs. In this episode, I break down what parents and caregivers need to know about parenting plans, child support, and financial planning for special needs in Arizona. I cover important topics like IEPs, continued support beyond age 18, and local laws designed to protect vulnerable adults. Whether you're facing divorce, separation, or just want to be prepared, you'll find clear, practical tips to help your family move forward.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><p>25-1501. Alleged incapacitated person; guardian ad litem - <a href="https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/25/01501.htm">https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/25/01501.htm</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 72 - Strategically Presenting Your Side]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Presenting your side clearly and effectively can change everything&#8212;whether you&#8217;re sitting in a mediation or standing in front of a judge.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-72-strategically-presenting-your</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-72-strategically-presenting-your</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2025 17:01:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/167767714/be15b20df291a4061f7d90994bac8067.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Presenting your side clearly and effectively can change everything&#8212;whether you&#8217;re sitting in a mediation or standing in front of a judge. This episode breaks down how to tailor your message to the setting, avoid common pitfalls, and stay focused on what actually moves the needle. If you&#8217;re a self-represented party or just want to communicate smarter, this is for you. Strategy isn&#8217;t about being slick&#8212;it&#8217;s about being clear.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 71 - Navigating Difficult Conversations]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Difficult conversations are hard enough&#8212;but when legal issues, co-parenting, or emotional history are involved, they can feel impossible.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-71-navigating-difficult-conversations</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-71-navigating-difficult-conversations</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2025 17:01:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/167757418/4cd1d99642aa8973888d388588dd6b41.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Difficult conversations are hard enough&#8212;but when legal issues, co-parenting, or emotional history are involved, they can feel impossible. In this episode, I share practical strategies for staying grounded, focused, and effective during high-stress discussions&#8212;whether you&#8217;re in a mediation session or just trying to keep things civil. Learn how to manage emotions, communicate clearly, and use tools like caucusing and note-taking to your advantage. Mediation doesn&#8217;t have to feel like a minefield.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 70 - Legal Fundamental - All About Discovery]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Unlock the essentials of discovery in Arizona family law!]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-70-all-about-discovery</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-70-all-about-discovery</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2025 17:00:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/166680071/817473f7d80531003301e059e3cd9dcb.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unlock the essentials of discovery in Arizona family law! In this episode, I break down the rules, tools, and strategies every self-represented party should know&#8212;whether you&#8217;re in court or seeking alternatives like mediation. Learn what to expect, how to stay organized, and how discovery can empower your legal journey.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><p>Rule 51. General Provisions Governing Discovery - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N59F257A0EA1211EF91B1D2A5E36369C6?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N59F257A0EA1211EF91B1D2A5E36369C6?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>Rule 52. Subpoena - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NE8010CC0997111DD9D86CB92C01FC325?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NE8010CC0997111DD9D86CB92C01FC325?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>Rule 57. Depositions by Oral Examination - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NEBF837406F3711ECAE78A32A341D5C78?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NEBF837406F3711ECAE78A32A341D5C78?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>Rule 60. Interrogatories to Parties - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/ND85F86006AC611DCB0E0A5A092926BB6?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/ND85F86006AC611DCB0E0A5A092926BB6?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>Rule 62. Production of Documents and Things and Entry onto Land - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N24969500997311DD9D86CB92C01FC325?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N24969500997311DD9D86CB92C01FC325?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>Rule 63. Physical, Mental or Behavioral Health, and Vocational Evaluations - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NCF88D190717A11DAA16E8D4AC7636430?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NCF88D190717A11DAA16E8D4AC7636430?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>Rule 64. Requests for Admission - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NCFBC64B0717A11DAA16E8D4AC7636430?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/NCFBC64B0717A11DAA16E8D4AC7636430?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 69 - Legal Fundamental - All about Disclosures]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | In this episode, I break down Rule 49&#8212;the key disclosure rule in family law cases&#8212;and explain what you need to share, when, and why it matters.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-69-all-about-disclosures</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-69-all-about-disclosures</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2025 17:01:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/165645078/c9995226cd62ab3a0ed96f638891927f.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I break down Rule 49&#8212;the key disclosure rule in family law cases&#8212;and explain what you need to share, when, and why it matters. Whether you're headed to court or working things out in mediation, understanding these requirements helps you stay prepared and avoid costly mistakes. I also share how I use these court standards as a roadmap in mediation to keep things moving smoothly. If you&#8217;re in a family case, this is a must-listen.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Links Mentioned</strong></p><p>Rule 49. Disclosure - <a href="https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N933C1C80997011DD9D86CB92C01FC325?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)">https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N933C1C80997011DD9D86CB92C01FC325?viewType=FullText&amp;originationContext=documenttoc&amp;transitionType=CategoryPageItem&amp;contextData=(sc.Default)</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 68 - New and Improved Services]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | In this enlightening episode, we explore innovative legal support services designed to empower individuals navigating family law matters independently.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-68-new-and-improved-services</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-68-new-and-improved-services</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2025 17:01:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/164035757/a097dc791ca31fde81eabb0330c5cdec.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this enlightening episode, we explore innovative legal support services designed to empower individuals navigating family law matters independently. I chat my new comprehensive suite of coaching services, which provide flexible, cost-effective solutions for those seeking professional guidance while maintaining control of their cases. Additionally, I share a powerful story leading to recent improvements to my mediation process, highlighting my commitment to safety and client well-being through enhanced screening procedures.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 67 - Silent Divorce]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Discover the hidden dynamics of "silent divorce"&#8212;where couples remain legally married but emotionally disconnected.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-67-silent-divorce</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-67-silent-divorce</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2025 17:00:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/162938528/52098317c48e1682d36e013b4ef65939.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Discover the hidden dynamics of "silent divorce"&#8212;where couples remain legally married but emotionally disconnected. This episode explores the subtle signs of emotional separation, from communication breakdown to parallel lives, and examines why couples often stay in these situations. Learn about the impact on family members and practical steps toward either resolution or conscious uncoupling.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 66 - Step-Parent Rights]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | In this episode, we explore the complex world of step-parent rights in Arizona, from the initial challenges of blending families to the legal options available for establishing parental rights.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-66-step-parent-rights</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-66-step-parent-rights</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2025 17:00:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/161845435/ff0d312d45c7691666184e982b6df344.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we explore the complex world of step-parent rights in Arizona, from the initial challenges of blending families to the legal options available for establishing parental rights. I break down the requirements for stepparent adoption and "in loco parentis" status, while offering practical advice for navigating these important family relationships. Whether you're a step-parent seeking legal rights or just beginning your journey in a blended family, this episode provides essential insights into building successful family dynamics while understanding your legal position.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 65 - Prenups for 2nd+ Marriages]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | We&#8217;re wrapping up our prenup mini-series today!]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-65-prenups-for-2nd-marriages</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-65-prenups-for-2nd-marriages</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2025 17:01:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/160904338/974c110c94a5802eb2ca0ea83dfe1143.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re wrapping up our prenup mini-series today! Tune in to learn all about the differences to consider when seeking a prenup for a second or subsequent marriage.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ep. 64 - Prenup Considerations for Same-Sex Couples]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | As we continue our prenup mini-series, we&#8217;re getting into LGBTQ+-specific considerations.]]></description><link>https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-64-prenup-considerations-for-same</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-64-prenup-considerations-for-same</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Abbie Godles]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2025 17:02:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/159298278/3c270c6c140cbe87dc139e21c096f9ba.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As we continue our prenup mini-series, we&#8217;re getting into LGBTQ+-specific considerations. Beyond the basics that apply to all prenuptial agreements, learn how they can provide opportunities for LGBTQ+ couples to overcome challenges unique to this community.</p><p>--</p><p><strong>Newsletter:</strong> </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mymm.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p><strong>Website:</strong> <a href="http://www.modernlegalsolutions.com/">www.modernlegalsolutions.com</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernlegalsolutions/">@modernlegalsolutions</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:</strong> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/">www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:</strong> <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation">www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation</a></p><p>--</p><p><strong>Credits</strong></p><p>Intro and Outro Music: <a href="https://pixabay.com/music/corporate-motivational-day-112790/">&#8220;Motivational Day&#8221;</a> by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/audiocoffee-27005420/">AudioCoffee</a>, available under the <a href="http://pixabay.com/service/terms/">Pixabay License</a></p><p>Recording and Editing Software: Audacity&#174; software is copyright &#169; 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity&#174; is a registered trademark.</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>